Welcome to the home of Jessica's Elegant Collars!

I hope you find the perfect daytime collar here.

The photo above is a collar my Dom and I designed for my everyday use. I am a professional woman and wearing a collar at my office was simply not an option ... yet I wanted (and needed) to feel owned and cherished even while I was working in my professional capacity. My Dom knew that I enjoyed making jewelry as a hobby, so he graciously allowed me to craft my own daytime collar. I started with a basic Byzantine chain mail pattern, varying the sizes and materials to give it a more delicate and unique look, and finished it off with a lovely padlock toggle clasp. When alone or with my Dom, I wear it as it appears above - as a choker with the padlock facing front. When at work or in situations where I must be discrete, I wear the padlock clasp on the back where it is covered by my hair. I also made an extension piece of approximately two inches in length, which attaches by lobster claw hooks on both ends. This piece is also worn on the back where it is covered by my hair. This extends the collar so it appears as a lovely and delicate necklace with a business suit. I can't tell you how many compliments I've received on my "necklace". Below is the collar with extension piece on the back - as you can see, it looks like a classy necklace now.

Some in the BDSM community might feel that this is not a "real" collar because the clasp is not a locking mechanism. For me, the collar is a symbol of my commitment to my Dom and the gift of myself to him. Neither of us needs an actual lock - we both know what the collar means. In this way, I can wear the collar at any time in any social situation.

It takes approximately two weeks to hand-craft a customized collar. You pick the precious metal you would like: gold-filled, sterling silver, copper, bronze, multi-colored aluminum, titanium or niobium. The collar above is made from thicker sterling silver rings. The one shown at the top of the page is made from large yellow gold-filled and smaller sterling silver rings. Gold-filled rings are made of a 14k gold tube which is filled with hard brass for strength. It is a very durable and reasonably priced alternative to 14k gold. Gold or Silver Plated rings are also available but I typically will not use those materials. The gold or silver plate wears off too quickly for my taste.

Check back soon for new designs and styles. Please allow two weeks for delivery, as each piece is hand-crafted and measured specifically to your size.